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Meghan's avatar

The timing of this list was impeccable - I am planning to confront my parents about their support for the administration tonight and going low/no contact. It's going to be one of the hardest conversations I've ever had and the advice on this list really gave me a boost this morning. Thank you.

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Carissa Faxalandez's avatar

Sending virtual hugs. That's really hard but can be really important. I hope the conversation goes as well as it can go.

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Candy from Like A Sister's avatar

Good luck ❤️

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Elise Vess's avatar

Sending peace and kindness. You’ve got this!

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Andee's avatar

This is a great list and helpful reminder. Another important one: do the things that bring you joy with people who bring you joy (dance, paint, watch RHO…, needlepoint, book club, cards, travel…etc) to refill your reserves.

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Joanna Chulick's avatar

Yes and remember that joy is a form of resistance!

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Kim's avatar

“Just because it didn’t go viral doesn’t mean it didn’t ripple” boy did I need to hear that and keep reminding myself of it!

I’ve started writing down all the small actions that I’ve taken to remind myself that I am doing something even if it doesn’t feel like it sometimes

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Deanna Debrecht's avatar

I am a precinct chair for my democratic precinct in North Carolina...may I quote your article in my next precinct email, with full credit of course? I've talked with several people recently who are feeling lost/burnt out/fatigued, and I'd love to share your tips!

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Emily Amick's avatar

Of course!

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Deanna Debrecht's avatar

Thank you!

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Erin's avatar

"You don't have to be an expert to care" wow thank you, definitely needed that. Sometimes it feels like I shouldn't take action because I don't know every single detail. Great reminder

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Lindsay Dahl's avatar

Well said, just shared this with my niece who is overwhelmed and paralyzed by the world right now. Thank you.

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Jacqueline Brousse's avatar

The “Done List” is like visual xanex :)

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Janine's avatar

Wonderful list. Going to remember how to hold myself up in this insanity . So grateful for you ❤️❤️

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Sonja's avatar

Wow I love this list! By far one of the best recommendations I've seen to prevent burnout and build resilience. Thank you Emily!

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Jamie S's avatar

"Urgency (usually) serves systems, not people" blew my mind. 🤯

Also, the voice "reading" this to me is British. I'm always curious if authors choose the automated voice? I'm immediately 20% more invested when there's a British accent involved, so great choice! 😆

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Emily Amick's avatar

I don’t think I did … however if I could have I would have chosen British because that is also my preferred audiobook narration.

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Kathy Kelly's avatar

I needed this reminder. Thank you.

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Laura V's avatar

This list is so helpful and very much needed.

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Lauren Gambill, MD, MPA's avatar

This list is fantastic. Thank you for the reminders!

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Leah Buchbinder's avatar

Perfect reminder and timing. Definitely something I learned from your book!

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Geneviève de Messières's avatar

Thank you, this is what I needed!

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Susan Beebe's avatar

Your book is an excellent resource!

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